Thursday, May 10, 2012

Fence

So this happened on Feruary 29th...

Wind blew down a large chunk of our back fence.
Since we have young kids (who need to be contained), the fence was rotting, and our neighbors never mow their lawn ever (read ugly view, fear of weird animals living in neighbors yard) it needed to be replaced.  I'm not kidding it was never mowed last spring/summer and I'm expecting the same this year.

We had to get estimates, compare prices, talk to our neighbors about at least paying to get their deteriorating fence hauled away, and get on the waiting list to get our new fence.  It finally was built this week and I'm so glad to have our view back.  And a way to contain the children.

If you look closely you can see the ugly lawn.

Great view:)




Thankful Thursday

This week I am thankful for...

516. Time in prayer with other home group leaders
517. Celebrating Matt's birthday
518. Dinner and drinks without the kids on Matt's birthday
519. Down time to just watch TV on Sunday
520. Pre-pregnancy weight reached
521. Grace's first sleep over at our house
522. New fence
523. Beautiful weather
525. Leaves on trees

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

9 Months Up, 14 Months Down

Tuesday is weigh in day at our house.  Every Tuesday morning we step on the scale to see how much damage has been done.  Fortunately for us damage has not been done for the last 4 months.  Matt has been losing weight and so have I!  I am one of those lucky people who doesn't gain tons of weight during my pregnancy but I am one of the unlucky breastfeeders who doesn't just lose weight because I'm nursing.

Historically (and I can say this because it has happened twice) I lose 15 or so pounds within a week of my children being born and don't budge again until they are 9 months or older.  Then the rest just goes away (very slowly).  I do try to exercise a tiny bit of portion control and while I'm not totally awesome at eating tons of fruits and veggies I would claim that our family does eat healthy.  So, with just a little bit of thinking and not weird or strict diets weight loss was achieved.

The weight I was stuck at wasn't horrible.  I was happyish with it but I just didn't feel myself.  I don't get too hung up on a number but I do know how I feel.  So when January hit I was hoping I would lose weight like I did when Grace was 9 months old.  I was happy to see the numbers dropping every week.  Most of the time is was about a .5 pound drop but that adds up.

So, below you can see my numbers.  I'm not about to post my real weight on the internet so I will call the weight I was today (and that is the reason for this blog post because I finally got down to my pre-pregnancy weight) and at the start of my pregnancy 0.  Every number you see is how far away I was from 0.

July 6, 2010: 0 lbs
July 10, 2010: Found out I was pregnant w/ Caleb - 4 weeks along
August 27, 2010: -3 lbs (despite the masive amounts of throwing up I did I really didn't loose much weight)
October 26, 2010: 4 lbs (halfway through pregnancy with Caleb, still not a lot of weight gain)
March 15, 2011: 26 lbs (can't complain that's all I gained)
March 17, 2011: Caleb was born
March 24, 2011: 11 lbs
January 3, 2012: 12.5 lbs (Pretty much stayed the same for 9 months except as you can see had a 1.5 lb gain I'm blaiming on the holidays)
May 8, 2012: 0 lbs

I still would like to lose another 4 or 5 pounds by my wedding anniversary in late June.  Because if I did I'm pretty sure I could put on my dress again and wear it with pride.  And wouldn't that be glorious: after 5 years and 2 babies to still be able to wear my wedding dress.  Maybe I'll have a vow renewal ceremony in my living room and take pictures so you can see it:)

Friday, May 4, 2012

Unreached People

Have you heard of the Joshua Project?  I hadn't until recently (maybe I'm behind).  This is the start of their mission statement. " Joshua Project is a research initiative seeking to highlight the ethnic people groups of the world with the fewest followers of Christ. Accurate, regularly updated ethnic people group information is critical for understanding and completing the Great Commission." You can also find them on the web here.

Anyway Matt and I have been talking about how to be more involved in missions to people groups who have not been exposed to the Gospel.  I automatically assumed it would mean giving financially (which is a great thing but not the only thing) but have been convicted there's a lot that can be done on the prayer front.  

I don't feel like I'm going to pack up my bags and move (or even go on a week long trip overseas) anytime soon but I want to be involved and aware of whats happening globally.  It's so easy to live in a bubble with my 25 Bible and 100 Christian books and resources.  There are people out there who have never seen a Bible and don't even have one in their own language!

So, I found The Joshua Project and they have this great little thing (I don't even know what the technical term is) that you can post on your blog or website, put on FB, get emailed, put on a calendar, etc... to remind yourself and others to pray for unreached people.

It is now on the right hand side of my blog (if you actually check it and don't get it through some reader).  But you can also sign up to get notified.  Let's pray more!  I think it's a good thing.


Thursday, May 3, 2012

Thankful Thursday

I'm slacking again and missed another week.  I was freezer cooking all day Thursday, then has my life group Thursday night, and then we went out of town at 8:30 Friday morning.  So, needless to say nothing got posted last Thursday.  So here's what I've been thankful for over the last 2 weeks.

501. No cavities (6 months ago when I went to the dentist I had my 1st cavity so I was nervous this time)
502. Fun date night playing arcade games with Matt
503. Our little girl turning 3
504. Super fun birthday party for Grace
505. Folding clothes at ET with some super cool women
506. Getting to meet Emily's baby Ellie
507. 3-day weekend at the in-laws (I love my in-laws so this is something I enjoy)
508. Grandparents willingness to watch kids so Matt and I can go out
509. Dinner (drinks, appetizers, entree and dessert) at the Cheesecake Factory
510. Getting to help Patti and Holly with a project at the church office and spending time with some awesome ladies I don't hang out with much
511. Protection from bad weather (tornado season makes me nervous)
512. Having some friends over during the tornado warning (less likely to freak out if another adult is in the house)
513. Spending the day with  Charlotte and watching Grace enjoy having her 1-year older and wiser friend over
514. Dinner with friends we haven't connected with in a while
515. My new closet hangers (velvet) and a place to donate my plastic hangers (Tarrs)

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Birthday Party

We had an awesome birthday party for Grace this year.  I really wanted to do something for her that she would love and maybe even remember.  My sister claims she still remembers her 3rd birthday party.  I on the other hand don't remember any parties before 12 (in our family that would have been 3, 6, and 9 that I forget all of those:().

Grace's birthday was on a Sunday this year so we started off the day eating breakfast, going to church, having lunch and then going down for an early nap.  I assumed she wouldn't fall asleep because we put her down so early but of course she did fall asleep. Then we woke her up after 45 minutes to take her to her party which was from 2-4.

Grace's party was at a local tumbling studio that offers parties.  They run the whole things and provide cupcakes, decorations and an optional craft (we did opt to do it).  It was amazing.  I didn't have to do anything but call and book it.  They asked what 2 colors Grace wanted and she picked yellow and red.  We decided to do an all girls party and invite girls that are right at Grace's age and/or she's really close to.  We ended up with 12 girls total so it was perfect.





The party was set in a giant gym with a spring loaded tumbling floor.  And the girls had the run of the place.  The hostess was a young girl who teaches classes at the studio.  She got out a few things for the kids to play on, then led them in stretches and various activities that involved crossing the floor like animals.  Then they all made a hair bow for the craft.  They also played duck, duck, goose and ring around the rosie.  This was capped off by an obstacle course.



Next, everyone went to the kitchen/lounge area which was decorated with red and yellow and ate chocolate cupcakes decorated in red and yellow.  Then we all returned to the gym to watch Grace open presents (if you were there and are reading this thank you so much for the gifts!).  Finally the girls got to run around and play more.

Everyone had a blast and Grace LOVED it.  It was so fun watching her face throughout the whole thing.

Grace - 3 Years Old

Out little beauty on her 3rd birthday.

I have been needing to write this post for over a week now but have been avoiding it because I'm afraid I'll forget something.  But I guess it's better to forget something than not write anything at all.  So I'm going to summarize what Grace is up to these days by categories....

Sleeping: Grace is still doing great at night.  She sleeps from 7pm - 6:30 or 7 in the morning.  We usually just leave her in bed until 7 in the morning and then get her up.  Her naps can be hit or miss and have been since around Christmastime.  She might have a week that she only takes 3 or 4 naps and just plays in her bed on the other days.  Then she'll go through a long stretch of weeks where she will take naps almost everyday.  Either way she still needs that time in her bed resting.  If she sleeps it is for a good 2 hours and if she doesn't sleep she often times just lays quietly.

Eating: Our not picky eater has shown more signs of pickiness lately.  However, I am not complaining.  She will still eat almost everything we give to her (sometimes with coercing).  She asks for vegetables if she doesn't have them!  Her favorite foods are cheese, fruit, peas and any kind of sweet she is allowed.  She used to eat a banana everyday until recently and just gave them up. So I started making peanut butter and banana sandwiches and she loves those.  I'm not sure why I never did that before.  Because 1) she's getting fruit and 2) we're avoiding eating jelly which has no nutritional value.

Potty Training:  A couple of months ago I posted about the starting potty training.  Fortunately, Grace took really well to it and has been doing great.  In the midst of it and at the beginning it felt really draining and I think is one of the hardest things we've done as parents.  Now Grace pees and poops in the potty 99.9% of the time.  I say 99.9% because she's had a couple of random accidents in the last month.  She also is dry in the morning a lot of the time.  I'm still not quite ready to put underwear on her at night but if her pull-up is dry we are just reusing it for a few nights so it's still cheap.

Play: Grace's favorite things to play with are her dollhouse, play kitchen, and Duplo blocks.  She also loves playing pretend.  She brings her best friends Dora and Boots with her wherever she goes.  She also just walks around the house making up stories.  It's a lot of fun to watch her going into imagination land.  Sometimes its frustrating because she wants me to join in and I have no idea what is going on inside of her head and can't quite play right.

Discipline: Grace is 3.  She is learning that she has a will of her own and wants to push boundaries.  We are working very hard at trying to teach her the importance of listening to and obeying us and other authorities.  That is a daunting task and we're not doing as good as we could be but there's grace and no parent is perfect.  This devotion has encouraged me as a parent when seeking obedience from Grace.  I realize it is not selfish but for her own good.  I also love this quotation from a Bible study I'm doing (the Bible study is not related to parenting but this chunk was relevant)

"Little Bonnie came home from Sunday school after learning the verse, "Let you light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven" (Matthew 5:16).  She asked her mom what it meant.  Her mother replied, "It means that when you are good and kind and obedient, you are letting Christ's light shine upon all who see you."

We want to teach Grace that being good (and this takes on many forms) is for Christ's glory. It's biblical.

God: One thing that has been cool over the last several months is working on Grace's memory verses from church with her.  She gets one verse a month and picks up on them quickly.  It's so cool to see her absorbing God's Word!

That's all for now!  I love our little 3-year old and she is a huge blessing to us.

Next post coming soon: Grace's 3rd birthday party!